Saturday, February 20, 2016

ASK-ing back

It was during one of the newly elected committee meeting back in 2013, the thirteen of us sat around in a circle in the house's living room on a Thursday evening, the announcement by the then-chairperson Jude was made; we are going to organise the Catholic Student's Society 2nd Annual camp. It was there that Jude and Vincent, the vice chairperson announced the organising committee to which would execute the society's biggest annual event. The camp itself wasn't only a point of interest but the journey towards it was what defined how it turned out. 


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Looking back to two years ago, the ASK camp; a name which was decided after a long discussion among ourselves, made me realise how complicated and tough it was leading a group of people whom we sometimes refer to as a family away from home. The indelible mark on our souls and mind left by the camp's journey was a lesson for the fifteen of us to realise that working together for a greater purpose isn't as easy as it was; the challenge, I can say for myself, was that despite organising a camp, we constantly had to keep in mind that the camp was for a greater purpose - to spread the love and message of God. 

The ASK camp was carried out with respect to the Gospel reading of Matthew chapter 7 verses seven to eight; because of the acronym that the word ASK itself represented, besides that, it was a challenge for us to search of what we are asking for, searching for and to which door we ought to knock. To that, the question we asked was about our human purpose in life through God's divine plan in which we spoke about our human body (referencing to St. John Paul II's Theology of the Body). The  "seek-ing" was about what in life that we can search for and how do we attain happiness and joyfulness through Christ. The door which we knock was about the source and summit  of our Christian life - the very sacrifice of Jesus, celebrated every day - the Mass. 



The camp opened up a vista of events that after going through it made me realise that the intentions of the heart if not properly shown by our words and action will only bring a misunderstanding amongst the one we love. The camp as I have seen it was an invitation to really understand that believing in your faith is as important as living it out; I was blessed to have worked with a team which was not only eager to learn about things beyond themselves but also the tolerance and forgiveness they had between and for each other. 

I'm going to be honest and say that working together for a camp in the name of Christ is one of the hardest and most challenging things one can face. First of all, no matter how hard we have to work with the pressure of our studies and social life, we have to put aside what extra time we had for the camp. Secondly, no matter how much we abhorred the work ethics of our fellow friends, we had to continue and  remind ourselves that what we work for is for the greater good. Thirdly, only after working together we realise that some relationships will change after this and it might be hard returning to the way things were. All the nights of discussion and preparation, all the long meetings and the multitude of laughter and tears, was a shared experience we had in growing towards a betterment of ourselves. 

Looking back at 2013 up till the camp in the following year, made me realise how we the CSS was still a community that was very much in growth - suffice to say that what we face today by the newer members of this family will never know the difference in struggle we had a few years back. 

Throughout the time working for this camp, relationship with one another grew stronger and the opposite too occurred. Then again, what is life without its ups and downs? The end result of it was that I believe each one of us, grew in faith and in trust for the Lord. 

Though it has been two years since, I would still like to thank the amazing team which God had put in place; from Megan, whom was wise to see the things that I couldn't see, to Jude and Sarah whose  lesson was that patience will lead to honesty, to Cynthia, whom God has taught to grow and taught me that each one of us are gifted, to Jasreena and Cecilia, whose perseverance taught me to trust God more, to Calista and Emily, whose child-like joy and optimism brought brightness to the group, to Matilda,  that any idea is worth sharing and to be discerned. To Christopher, whom taught me that perspective of how and what things are vital to getting things done; to Vincent, who showed me that once promising to something we stand by it till the end; to Nicholas and Samantha, who showed me that practice leads to new ideas and from new ideas to sometimes surprising ourselves; and Samuel, who taught me that all of us will always have room to learn. 

All in all, each one of them taught me that love of Christ surpasses all (Eph 3:19) the challenges and hardships which we endure. Furthermore that sometimes not only what the mouth speaks shows what the heart is full (Luke 6:45) but our actions and reactions matter just as much. 


This picture was added because notice that the mattress is mid-air.

Monday, February 8, 2016

Lent for UTARians

Lent is tomorrow! This marks the beginning of a 40-day period of trying to increase our holiness and piousness; but Lent is not all that grim, in fact it gives us the hope to look forward to the risen Christ and a second chance for us to restart our new year's resolution. 

Being a UTAR student in Kampar provides us with the opportunity of being tempted only for us to overcome those temptation and through those actions making us stronger in our relationship with God and with others. We call ourselves a family because of the faith that we share with one another and the support we provide, and "inspiring each of us to love our neighbour and devote ourselves what the Church's tradition call the spiritual and corporal works of mercy"1

Below then is a list of what we can do for Lent, take note that this is just a guideline and has nothing to do with anything official but there's a guarantee that following some of it will make your Lent a little more meaningful this semester. In no particular order, here goes!


  1. Go for the Way of the Cross on Fridays
  2. Pray with a friend
  3. Proudly do the Sign of the Cross before every meals
  4. Less binge watching anime, sitcoms, dramas or any of our favourite TV series
  5. Teh tarik kurang manis or better yet teh kosong
  6. Which take us to - less mamak sessions
  7. Less DOTA! (or LoL, or HoN)
  8. Walk to campus and enjoy the morning sunrise
  9. Start on your assignment as soon as you get it. 
  10. Volunteer to print one set of notes for your friend
  11. Join either Tuesday's or Thursday's weekly gathering
  12. Say "Hi" and have a conversation with another member whom you never speak to
  13. Invite a fellow Catholic for Mass (if he/she rarely goes)
  14. Invite a non-Catholic for any of CSS's activities
  15. Save an extra Ringgit to put in the collection bag every Sunday
  16. No eating that just-fried fried chicken. Instead buy it for another person.
  17. Support a completely unrelated (meaning not because they are your friend's or because of your course) society's event on campus
  18. Give an honest hug to someone who might need it after Sunday Mass
  19. Volunteer at the soup kitchen on Saturdays at Church
  20. Greet and smile at the campus cleaners, if you're brave enough strike a conversation with them, you'll be surprised
  21. DON'T SIGN YOUR FRIEND'S ATTENDANCE or ask a friend to sign for you
  22. Call your parents more often
  23. Read a spiritual book or article (for starters you can start with Evangelii Gaudium or any Pope's message to youths)
  24. Pick up random rubbish on the pathway while you're heading to Block C or Block K
  25. Offer a ride (if you have a car) to someone who's walking under the hot sun or when it starts to rain
  26. Say thank you to your lecturers after class
  27. No Maggi or Ramen or Mamee!
  28. No side comments on people you don't know
  29. Save that extra ringgit for the Lenten Love Squad
  30. Save another extra ringgit for another charity outside of Church
  31. Practice recycling
  32. Lessen on going to the CC (Cyber cafe)
  33. Go to Confession NOT only during the Penitential service at Church
  34. Start a conversation with Uncle Lawrence or Uncle John Lau (our van drivers) or whomever that picks us up at Bus Stop 3
  35. No skipping classes
  36. No MCs!
  37. Forgive your assignment-mate if he or she slacks
  38. Smile more at people
  39. Start with the minimum of saying thank you to Jesus before going to sleep
  40. Don't sleep during class
  41. Keep your handphone in your pocket during meals with friends and ESPECIALLY DURING MASS
  42. For a change join the Tuesday's CSS gathering (if you go on Thursdays) or vice versa; you'll discover something new
  43. Enjoy the sunset
  44. Sweep your house's common area
  45. Surprise your friend with a meal
  46. Fast on Fridays
  47. Honestly pray for a friend who might need it
  48. Volunteer to visit the Orang Asal or migrants with Sister Amy from time to time
  49. Lessen on streaming videos on your home internet
  50. After Mass go to either those outside your circle or aunties or uncles and wish them a good week ahead.
The list might go on and on, basically there are numerous little things we can do this Lent; in fact we're lucky to be in UTAR where there are a lot of options for us to learn about our faith, and to "increase our measure of authenticity as disciples of Jesus, and our credibility as Christians in today's world"2Don't neglect Lent and brush it off as another rigid thing the Catholic Church practices, in fact take it as a personal challenge to make ourselves as better disciples of Christ and to be his witnesses in our daily lives. 

1. Lent 2016: "I desire mercy not sacrifice" (Mat 9:13) The works of mercy on the road of the Jubilee
2. XXXI World Youth Day message: Blessed are the merciful, they shall obtain mercy (Mat 5:7)